sex and the universe

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I take for granted that my readers believe in the Law of Attraction and have a basic familiarity with it. Perhaps I am wrong? Maybe many of you are skeptics, here to see what we “hippy dippy new age” types are up to? I can understand that. I was a skeptic too. To take in the awesome power of the Law of Attraction, especially when seeking the love of your life, is a pretty tall order. I have a challenge for you.

Take the next 60 days and write down 3 goals: one financial, one relational and one wild card goal of your choice. Write down where you are NOW in relationship to that goal and then put in a date and write down where you are when we are done with the challenge in 60 days. I want you to see if you moved closer…

I’m going to do it with you. In 60 days I want an unexpected $1000 in my pocket. This extra $1000 must not be anything I (or you) currently expect in the form of payment for services, rebates, commissions, birthday gifts, etc. Regarding relationships, I would like to find a new, really good friend in the next 60 days….someone I don’t know at all but who is an incredibly good fit for me (I have a lover so no need for that). Finally, I want to have WITHOUT trying lost an additional 5 pounds. I’m not making a plan for it (like reducing my yummy coffee drink intake or consciously increasing my exercise).

Step one we’ll cover today. I’m going to write down all the possible ways these things COULD happen in 60 days and I want YOU to do the same.

MONEY:
1. I could receive several unexpected refunds of monies already paid that equal or exceed $1000. 2. I could get new clients or speaking engagements and my fees could equal or exceed $1000. 3. I could receive that money as a gift that I am not expecting. 4.I could enter a contest and win. 5. I could JUST FIND THE MONEY.

RELATIONSHIP
1. I could join a group and meet someone I really like. 2. I could put an ad out for a new friend on a free site like craigslist. 3. I could meet someone through an existing friend. 4. I could bump into someone someplace and just strike up a conversation.

WEIGHT
Who knows? This one is a wild card? I’m just going to weigh myself and report the results.

These are the first steps. We’ll check back in in a few days to go over the next steps.

NOW, skeptics will be saying that, especially when it comes to the relationship goal, I’m doing the work. AND THEY’D BE RIGHT. The Law of Attraction does not work well in a vacuum. The more action you put into it the more results you’ll see! BUT, if I do the same things without the proper attitude, I’m much less likely to see the best results.

So, get yourself a notebook and write your three things down. Then write some possibilities (no matter how outlandish!) on how this MIGHT happen down (this helps you see the reality that odd, unexpected things DO occur all the time). Let me know below what some of your goals are so we can all send good thoughts your way.

In the meantime, my ebook Sex and the Universe, will soon actually be a physical book. I’ll keep you updated!

Feng shui is an ancient Chinese tradition that shares some traits with the Law of Attraction. They both utilize univeral laws to increase positive energy (in Chinese this energy is Qi, prounced “chi”). The practice of feng shui today is to help individuals and organizations structure their physical selves and homes in a way so that positive energy can more easily flow. See the correlation? Exciting stuff, huh? We discuss clutter and how it blocks your positive energy on this blog and in my ebook Sex and the Universe. Let’s see how feng shui can help us do this more effectively…

Feng shui can be seen as “thoughtful placement” per Karen Rauch Carter, author of “Move Your Stuff, Change Your Life“. To utilize the principles of feng shui effectively, it helps to know what you want! In this case, it’s pretty clear you want to attract love into your life and there are feng shui steps to doing so! For seeking love you want to focus your attention on overall Qi flow improvement throughout your home, AND focus specific attention on the bedroom.

• De-clutter everywhere. This helps the Qi flow. Pay particular attention to decluttering the bedroom.
• Spruce up. Repaint to renew your space. Replace linens and fix broken items.
• Images of single women or men in paintings or prints should be removed. You want images of happy couples if anything.
• Don’t watch tv in the bedroom. The tv should be removed so that no negative imagery is viewed there.
• Traditional feng shui says you should place natural quartz crystals and red, white and yellow lights in the southwest corner of your bedroom. Hey, give it a try! It can’t hurt!
• The bedroom should be balanced between masculine and feminine styles.
• Rid the bedroom of any and all mementos of past relationships!
• Make sure your bed is large enough, you have two nightstands, and there is room in a closet and the dresser to welcome your new partner.
• Set out things in sets of two: two candles, two ceramic birds, two vases.
• Add in the sensual: massage oils, powders, scent diffusers…and more.

You get the picture, right? All of this sets the universe in motion to give you what you have set the stage for! Books on feng shui compliment Sex and the Universe nicely. Now go get your love Qi flowing!

“Don’t forget to love yourself.”-Soren Kierkegaard

There are times, for a variety of reasons, that your love match might not come along right when you think they should. Are you prepared for them to show up? I discuss a great deal about loving yourself in Sex and the Universe and it is a basic tenent of the Law of Attraction. To attract the person you want, you need to love the person you are.

So, you are reading the ebook, working some of the exercises there and on the blog, reducing negativity, pursuing health and still no great love has arrived. First, are you allowing that love in? Are you “in the process” of attracting your soul mate? What can that process look like?

Is there room in your heart? Have you cleared out romantic attachments from the past that were unhealthy? Or are you clinging to someone else while trying to act as if there is room for someone new? And what of YOUR life? Are you LIVING it? Do you even know what it looks like?

Start a wish list. It can be a real one on Amazon or just something on a piece of paper. Pretend you are Will Smith in I Am Legend and the whole human population has vanished except for you. You have free and easy access to anything you want…homes, cars, animals, clothing, camping equipment, surfboards, whatever…Money is no object. You get to do anything you want, whenever you want and you have all of the necessary tools.

It can be a lonely vision, to be sure. But for a moment, you are on the planet to only make YOU happy, to satisfy yourself. Will you grow vegetables in a greenhouse, go grab a Nintendo Wii and perfect your tennis swing, grab a state of the art computer and learn Photoshop? Maybe you’d like to read all of the Nobel Prize winning novels or finally get that six-pack of abs? Will you eat white rice for dinner for six days straight or rare truffels packed in oil from the local gourmet food store…Anything goes…

Now. Back to a happy, love abundant planet where there is, without a doubt, someone for everyone. What changes can you make today to make yourself more content, happier, more interested and interesting? Are you worrying too much about what people might think of your unique life vision? Stop. Open your heart. Fill your life. Picture that perfect love to share life with.

It’s up to you.

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It can’t be said enough. The more clearly you can visualize what you want, the more likely you are to attract it to you. Whether it’s a new career, more money (and the things and security it brings), or as discussed in Sex and the Universe, finding your perfect mate, the more you can hear, see, smell in your mind’s eye, the faster you bring that vision into being.

So, what’s your perfect day with your new partner look like? I asked a friend and they said this:

“I get up early and let my partner sleep in. I let the dogs out and get them fed, smell the coffee as it’s brewing, turn on the news and fire up the computer. I pour myself a mug, read some emails, plan the day’s work, and go crawl back in for a few snuggles before we both get up for the day. She goes off to her office upstairs while I work in mine on the main floor, both of us with great views of the bird feeders and the dogs running loose. Lunch time comes and we meet back in the kitchen and share a sandwich she’s fixed, discuss what we are working on. I run off afterwards to pick up some groceries, come back, make some calls to clients and she comes and sits with me in the late afternoon as the sun starts to soften. She feeds the dogs supper while I start ours and we sit out on the porch and eat, then clean up the kitchen together. We wrap work up for the evening, pop in a movie, go for a walk around the field with the pups-holding hands, refill the feeders, she checks email one last time as I shower and go to bed to read. She comes in a bit later, takes her shower after all the critters are put to bed. We make love sweetly, turn off the light and sleep like babies. The sun comes up, no alarm clock, and we start over again.”

Shakti Gawain wrote a great book in the early 1980’s that’s been reprinted repeatedly called Creative Visualisation. If you need help creating your images, try this book along with my ebook.

Your soul mate is simply waiting to be called to you. Create your perfect day with them!

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