sex and the universe

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I love true stories from people who have used the Law of Attraction to attract what they wanted (or sometimes what they did not because they weren’t using it consciously!). These people often start off as skeptics like me, and yet they ended up with irrefutable proof of the power of the Universe in reaping what they focused on. I just finished a great book of LOA tips and stories called Life Lessons for Mastering the Law of Attraction. I will say it is missing great tips on finding love so some time spent reading Sex and the Universe is definitely a worthwhile endeavor!

The book is part of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series and is a basic “how to” guide for the Law of Attraction coupled with some pretty intriguing anecdotes on a variety of experiences using LOA. Some of the writers stumbled upon the laws accidentally, some had been familiar for years but had just not considered using them for their current situation. Many of the stories are “last chance” stories…the writers had nothing to lose by trying the laws to heal their current situations. A great story by Amy Scott Grant called “The Day I Ran Out of Money” is one of the brilliant examples of how the universe provides, and has always, and always will!

Again, there is far more focus on money, business and career than love in the book, but it is still awe inspiring and should be a part of your Law of Attraction library! (You have one, right?)

I take for granted that my readers believe in the Law of Attraction and have a basic familiarity with it. Perhaps I am wrong? Maybe many of you are skeptics, here to see what we “hippy dippy new age” types are up to? I can understand that. I was a skeptic too. To take in the awesome power of the Law of Attraction, especially when seeking the love of your life, is a pretty tall order. I have a challenge for you.

Take the next 60 days and write down 3 goals: one financial, one relational and one wild card goal of your choice. Write down where you are NOW in relationship to that goal and then put in a date and write down where you are when we are done with the challenge in 60 days. I want you to see if you moved closer…

I’m going to do it with you. In 60 days I want an unexpected $1000 in my pocket. This extra $1000 must not be anything I (or you) currently expect in the form of payment for services, rebates, commissions, birthday gifts, etc. Regarding relationships, I would like to find a new, really good friend in the next 60 days….someone I don’t know at all but who is an incredibly good fit for me (I have a lover so no need for that). Finally, I want to have WITHOUT trying lost an additional 5 pounds. I’m not making a plan for it (like reducing my yummy coffee drink intake or consciously increasing my exercise).

Step one we’ll cover today. I’m going to write down all the possible ways these things COULD happen in 60 days and I want YOU to do the same.

MONEY:
1. I could receive several unexpected refunds of monies already paid that equal or exceed $1000. 2. I could get new clients or speaking engagements and my fees could equal or exceed $1000. 3. I could receive that money as a gift that I am not expecting. 4.I could enter a contest and win. 5. I could JUST FIND THE MONEY.

RELATIONSHIP
1. I could join a group and meet someone I really like. 2. I could put an ad out for a new friend on a free site like craigslist. 3. I could meet someone through an existing friend. 4. I could bump into someone someplace and just strike up a conversation.

WEIGHT
Who knows? This one is a wild card? I’m just going to weigh myself and report the results.

These are the first steps. We’ll check back in in a few days to go over the next steps.

NOW, skeptics will be saying that, especially when it comes to the relationship goal, I’m doing the work. AND THEY’D BE RIGHT. The Law of Attraction does not work well in a vacuum. The more action you put into it the more results you’ll see! BUT, if I do the same things without the proper attitude, I’m much less likely to see the best results.

So, get yourself a notebook and write your three things down. Then write some possibilities (no matter how outlandish!) on how this MIGHT happen down (this helps you see the reality that odd, unexpected things DO occur all the time). Let me know below what some of your goals are so we can all send good thoughts your way.

In the meantime, my ebook Sex and the Universe, will soon actually be a physical book. I’ll keep you updated!

I stumbled across a great post about giving the Universe a “task list” and I wanted to share it with you! The Law of Attraction, as I’ve discussed in Sex and the Universe, isn’t remotely mysterious. It’s in constant motion and is giving you the things you’ve asked for: either out right or by dwelling on them. Sometimes this is good (you have your dream board, you’ve feng-shui’d your bedroom in preparation for love)…and sometimes we aren’t conscious of the messages we are sending. This exercise is very helpful in letting the Universe know what you need help with.

When you are feeling overwhelmed or like things aren’t moving in the direction you want, make a list. The list should be of things you have to handle (and know how to) and things you are unclear on or need help with (the Universe’s list). When it comes to love your list might look like this:

ME

Paint bedroom

Post online profile

Get haircut

UNIVERSE

Help me become more outgoing

Find additional social activities where my potential soul mate is waiting

Deliver a source of funds to fix the broken air conditioner so my feng shui functions smoothly

It’s a great exercise because we often try to control every detail instead of requesting it from the Universe and then believing the answer will be delivered. Try this and let me know your results in the comments section below! You can find out more about attracting the love you deserve into your life here.